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ID Documents
- ARROWOOD LAW – Charlie Arrowood, esq (they/them) provides name change legal assistance in New York State on a sliding scale basis.

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💇🏻 Was trying to make some #menswearselfcare content for y’all but Ube the cat had other plans 😂 // #StayHome

🎊 Sharing some good news: Today Caitlin and I celebrate 5 years together! 🎊 And while we came up with it approximately 4 years ago, we wanted to FINALLY unveil our wedding hashtag with y’all... drumroll please.... 🔔 #SayIDumlao 🔔 Please feel free to make fun of our commitment to sapphic stereotypes as part of our special day. And thank YOU all for your love in our lives. xx AC & Cait 📸: @thelocdbella

I’ve been bad at daily posting! But I’m being gentle with myself! So, I’ll post as much as I can. I’m also trying to think of (when I have bandwidth) ways for me to share things / help y’all with what I am able to. I’ve been able to connect with folks just about non-binary identity recently and I’m always down to talk about that? I want to be helpful and also want to not pressure myself to “be productive.” I love you all. How are you doing? xxAC

Dressed up for zoom happy hour with the most wonderful queer & trans folks 🤗. Made it time Friday! One day at a time. // #menswearselfcare #ACsOOTD

Today’s #ACsOOTD guest: Ube! 😻 #HotBoysForRona // #menswearselfcare

Today I celebrate 1 year sober from alcohol! With all that’s going on, it’s been great to see bits of positive news and posts — I hope I can be a part of that for someone else. Feeling very grateful. xx AC // #ACsOOTD #menswearselfcare

Daily work from home selfies begin today! // I started #menswearselfcare as a way to be able to control something in a world that was out of control. Today begins a return to that, and I’m dedicating myself to posting once a day and #TalkingAboutIt. // I already had my weekly therapy appointment cancelled since I was supposed to be in DC this week for a conference. I’m feeling oddly calm — maybe it’s that I’ve been anticipating all of this for weeks now. I’m feeling very grateful to have my partner, my two cats, my apartment, my job. I also do feel scared because my depression worsens in isolation. But for today, I am okay. I’m trying to read a little less news (and definitely avoiding anything from the White House) and do a little more breathing and grounding and listening to music and yes even starting a Tik Tok (see stories). I am thinking of you all. See you tomorrow! // #ACsOOTD

💫 In 2016, I started dressing up for work even when I didn’t “need” to because it was a way for me to have control over SOMETHING in my life (therefore #menswearselfcare was born). Today’s my last day IN the office, so here’s today’s last hurrah 🎉 xx AC

It's a new day. I will always be an Elizabeth Warren supporter. Today, #IEndorseBernie. #NotMeUs xx AC As an Elizabeth Warren supporter who believes in the power of our progressive movement and fights every day for transgender, non-binary, and intersex people of color, I am proud to announce my endorsement of Bernie Sanders. From his plans of Medicare for All including gender affirming procedures to ensuring fair housing for all to eliminating private prisons and detention centers, and more, I trust in Bernie and am eager to see the campaign pushed even further on trans BIPOC issues. I believe in him, I believe in us. All of us. Together. #berniesanders #bernie2020 #berniesanders2020 #sanders2020

🗽 If it is not yet clear: I will NEVER regret supporting @ewarren. I will never apologize for staying with her til the very end. I am proud of her. And I'm proud of #TeamWarren. Judge us by the company we keep: an outspoken, openhearted group including so many people I admire, led by BIPOC and trans people. I am especially thinking of Warren’s LGBTQ+ surrogates who I’ve had the pleasure of getting to know over the past months. / These do not end today: HOPE over fear. COURAGE over cynicism. We PERSIST. / Twenty-seven weeks ago I spoke with @TeamWarren Director of LGBTQ+ Outreach Daniel Lander. And I mean that: I spoke, Daniel listened. For an hour. About ID documents, the epidemic of Black trans women being murdered, the validity of trans people who do not have dysphoria. We talked about healthcare exclusions, airport security, and my lived experience as a trans non-binary Filipino-American. I talked. #TeamWarren's Daniel listened. And we kept talking. About gender-inclusive language re: delegates. About me BECOMING a NY-8 DNC delegate. / #TeamWarren made me feel SEEN in a way that no other campaign has. To in turn be seen as someone that people IRL and online can go to to talk about the issues, to be identified as part of #TeamWarren is one of the greatest honors of my life so far. / Don't you forget it: the MOST comprehensive plan for LGBTQ+ communities out of all candidates. Which centers trans, non-binary, & intersex communities with incredible SPECIFICITY. The nominee would do well to read up. And reach out to us. / Today, I take a day to breathe, to mourn, to feel. Onward. xx AC // #ThankYouElizabeth #ElizabethWarren #ThankYouWarren #AllOfUs4Warren

Delicious Chinatown date with my one and only @cait.psd! We need to all be supporting Chinatowns & Chinese restaurants & businesses more than ever! Who’s joining us? 🥟 🍜 // #IWillEatWithYou #LoveChinaTowns #menswearselfcare

Keeping on, keeping on 👋🏽 I’m alive, I promise! Just much better at story posts than grid posts these days. Thinking of you all, lovebugs. Be gentle with yourselves. 🌹 // #menswearselfcare

Happy Valentines 💕THEY💕!! xoxo your pal AC 🌹 // #menswearselfcare

Happy SaturTHEY, bbs! 🌞 Enjoying brunch and coffee and @cait.psd’s company while we do home/life/money/wedding work! // #Mx cap: @genuinevalentine; Custom #they necklace: @jwlgang // #menswearselfcare

I started getting into posting about fashion on here in 2016 because picking out my clothes helped me feel in control when my mental health was not. Today was a hard one. But my @plumties flamingo tie helped a ton 🦩. Sending love to you bbs today and always! xx #menswearselfcare

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